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Feb. 5, 2024

Experimenting with Ethical Non-Monogamy Part 2

This week, we're continuing our conversation on Ethical Non-Monogamy (ENM). Plus, in our 'LGBTQs in the News' segment, Looking, Queer Eye, Will Ferrell, and more. Info Discussed: Pedro Pascal auditioned for ‘Looking’ & more s...

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Jan. 22, 2024

Experimenting with Ethical Non-Monogamy

More and more people are experimenting with non-monogamy in the gay community and beyond. But not a lot of advice is out there about opening up relationships, so we're unpacking ethical non-monogamy (or ENM) in greater detail...

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Jan. 16, 2024

Relationship Deal Breakers

This week, we're celebrating our 50th episode! Then, we unpack a listener mail question that leads us into a discussion about deal breakers in a relationship. Plus, in our 'LGBTQs in the News' segment, Lil Nas X returns, RuPa...

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Jan. 8, 2024

PornhubGay's 2023 Year in Review

In our first episode of 2024, we’re talking about porn again! PornhubGay released its annual year in review, so we’re taking a closer look at the popular search terms and discussing the porn ya’ll watched last year. Plus, in ...

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Dec. 26, 2023

Grindr Unwrapped 2023

This week, we’re exploring Grindr’s 2023 year end unwrapped. We’re analyzing Grindr’s data and learning where the highest percentage of tops, bottoms, verse, sides, and so much more are located. Plus, in our ‘LGBTQs in the Ne...

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Dec. 11, 2023

Gay Monogamous Relationships

We're doing a pivot from our usual non-monogamous discussions and we're talking about monogamy in this week's episode. We're unpacking a study on relationship trends among gay men, specifically gay monogamous relationships. P...

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Dec. 4, 2023

Our Big Gay Spotify Podcast Unwrapped

This week, we're taking a look at our 2023 Spotify Unwrapped stat-by-stat. We've come along way and we're so happy you're listening! Our 'LGBTQs in the News' for this week includes, Lil Nas X, George Santos, Tiffany Pollard, ...

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Nov. 20, 2023

The State of Gay Bars in America

This week, we’re diving into a new research study discussing the decline of gay bars in America. In the ‘LGBTQs in the News’ segment, DaBaby, Marlon Wayans, Queer Eye, and more! Info Discussed: DaBaby Says Backlash to AIDS Co...

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Nov. 13, 2023

Unpacking Racial Preferences in the Gay Community

A listener question leads us into a discussion about Grindr's ethnicity filter and racial preferences in the gay community. Plus, in our 'LGBTQs in the news' segment we're discussing, the NYC Marathon, Jamaica, The Grammys, a...

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Oct. 30, 2023

More Young People Are Identifying As LGBTQ+

This week, we’re discussing a recent study out of the UK analyzing young people identifying as LGBTQ+ more so than ever. Plus, in our ‘LGBTQs in the News’ section, queer sports news, Omar Apollo & Pedro Pascal, Club Q update,...

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Oct. 23, 2023

Gay Cuckolding

This week, a question from a listener leads us into a discussion about gay cuckolding. We're unpacking the sexual fantasy and learning all about it! Plus, in our 'LGBTQs in the News' segment, Jada Pinkett Smith, Pulse memoria...

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Oct. 16, 2023

Episode 41: Madonna on Tour, A Drag School is Coming to SF, Sufjan St…

Chris and Gene discuss their obsessions of the week including Kim Petras's 'Problematique' album and senorita bread. In 'LGBTQs in the News' a new drag school coming to San Francisco, Troye Sivan, Madonna's 'Celebration' tour...

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Oct. 9, 2023

Open Marriages In The Gay Community

This week, we’re discussing a new Pew Research Survey analyzing the acceptability of open marriages. We get into why the gay community is so much more open to open marriages. Plus, in our ‘LGBTQs in the News’ segment, Doxy-PE...

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Oct. 2, 2023

We’re Back & Unpacking Recent LGBTQ News

We’re back-back-back-again! For real this time! Fresh off of a 9 month hiatus. This week, we’re answering the infamous question: “Where have y’all been?!” Plus, we have a jam packed list of 'LGBTQs in the News' to get into. W...

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Jan. 30, 2023

Cheating In An Open Relationship

Cheating isn't just for the monogamous! Cheating is a common struggle within open relationships, so let's unpack it. In this episode of the podcast, we will discuss the different ways that cheating can manifest in open relati...

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Jan. 16, 2023

Breaking Down The Letters Of The LGBTQ+ Community

Every wonder what the LGBTQ+ acronym stands for?! Well on this week's episode we got you covered! We're analyzing each letter of the acronym and discussing our take on using queer as an umbrella term for the community. Plus, ...

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Jan. 9, 2023

Dissecting PornhubGay’s 2022 Year in Review

In our first episode of 2023, we’re back to talking about porn! PornhubGay released its annual year in review, so we’re taking a closer look at popular search terms and discussing the porn ya’ll watched last year. Plus, in ou...

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Dec. 26, 2022

Merry Christmas, Happy Holidays

It’s been awhile since we talked about Grindr, so this week we’re discussing the apps's year end unwrapped, and we give you an update on our current Grindr habits. Plus, in our ‘LGBTQs in the News’ segment, we’re talking abou...

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Dec. 13, 2022

SOS

This week, we continue to unpack common gay myths that gay men have about each other. Plus, in our 'LGBTQs in the News' segment we unpack the cancellation of Legendary, Brittney Griner, RuPaul's Drag Race, and more! Did you h...

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Dec. 5, 2022

Kickback

Hey, Intermingle Fam! Did you hear?! We have a holiday giveaway where we’re gifting a brand new pair of 2nd generation Apple AirPods. Visit our Instagram page to learn more. This week on the show, we’re keeping it light-heart...

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Nov. 28, 2022

Lift Me Up

We're still not over it. This week, we're going in on the anti-LGBTQ rhetoric running rampant in the wake of the Club Q shooting. Plus, in our 'LGBTQs in the News' segment, we discuss David Archuleta, Billy Porter, The World …

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Nov. 21, 2022

Pink + White

Hey Queers! We’re back with another episode and we’re unpacking colonized desires. What are they? Why do we have them? And how can you get past them? Also, in our ‘LGBTQs in the News’ segment, we discuss the mass shooting …

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Nov. 14, 2022

XXX

Palm Springs Pride took us out! But we’re back and ready to discuss filth. We’re unpacking our experiences with gay porn, No Nut November, porn addiction and the effect it has on our community. Plus, this week in our 'LGBTQs …

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Oct. 31, 2022

In Da Club

We're back! This week on the show we’re discussing the gay bar scene. We’re sharing a brief history of gay bars, our first time at a gay club, and tips for the newbies entering the scene. Info Discussed: The Miss …

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